KINDNESS

Kind people are my kinda people

Blame

Blame is a weak persons game.

I have been listening to a lot of Dr. Wayne Dyer lately.

When he was a therapist he had a lot of people come in and blame their mom for their issues. His response would be “ Ok send your mom to me and we will treat her and you will get better?”

Life just does not work this way. Circle of control, that person in the mirror.

I feel as though we owe it to ourselves to become the very best version of ourselves this lifetime.

This means dropping all blame and realizing we are the captains of our own ships.

None of us make it out alive without making mistakes. Often this is how we learn our best lessons.

I want to tell every 16 year old you are the captain of your own ship and only you have the power to change your life!!! Never put your happiness in other people’s hands… we must create it!!!!!! Also at 16 one had no idea about life.

I would never allow a 16 year old to take hormone blockers or make life altering decisions. We must remember the brain is not fully developed until 25 and these kids are just barely learning to drive!!!!!!

Kids need to be kids

One love

Namaste

JCC

Seeing yourself as love

“Seeing yourself as love… and having only that to give away.”

Dr. Wayne Dyer

Resentment

Resentment is like drinking poison wanting to hurt the other person.

Forgiveness is a beautiful thing… do it for you.

One love

Namaste

JCC

COMPASSION

Have you ever wanted to give other’s a break? Have you ever wanted to give yourself a break?

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Remember rule #6

Never take yourself to damn serious :)

Ego

Edging God out

I live my life with a mantra

I am not better than anyone else…

And no one is better than me

Guided

Children need to be guided…not made wrong.

When we think long term what do kids want and crave? Time with their mother and father.

One will get criticized either way…how ver we are choosing to homeschool and our sun gets socialized at libraries with other home schoolers.

Age 1 to 7 are the most formative years and when their brains are in theta.

Remember kids are crying to communicate.

To return back to nature… literally outside so often with our sun and ourselves as well.

Hope this finds you well

Love for the day

Namaste

JCC

Hard times DON’T LAST

STRONG PEOPLE DO 🦋🙌🌞💭💯🔔🌲🙏🐞

Understanding

The greatest understanding you can have… is that you do not understand.

Spending all your time and effort in relationships trying to get people to understand you or agree with you will ensure you will always be a victim.

Always give compassion kindness and caring… always give up being understood or what the others may think.

Thanks

Giving thanks for what we had 🦋🙌🌞💭

Thanks

Giving thanks for what we had 🦋🙌🌞💭

Bullies

Remember bullies are usually the most insecure people out there!!!

If one has to make fun of another in order to feel good… that is true insecurity.

When I used to go out I was never afraid of the loudest mouth out at the bar.

It was always the quiet Navy Seal in the corner you had to be mindful of.

Stay secure…know your power

“ Never let someone else’s opinion of you become your reality.” Les Brown

If someone else’s gift is anger… and you do not accept that gift… what happens?

Courage

WISDOM

Sometimes wisdom is knowing what not to say🌞🦋🙌💭💯🔔😊🌲🐞

Beliefs

A belief is just a thought one thinks about over and over.

If one thinks about it… everything started as a thought.

This iPhone, benches, chairs, haircuts… everything we enjoy at once was only a thought.

“ What we think about all day long we become” Buddha

It is never too late to change your thinking or thoughts.

The movie “ The Secret “ changed my life forever.

All my love and compassion

Crofton

Organic regenerative farming

We vote with our wallets everyday!!!!!!

We just made a small donation to FARM AID today after learning about the back story.

It is my belief all cattle should be free range along with chickens pasture raised.

We should be taking care of Mother Earth and not spraying her with chemicals to earn more profit.

We vote with our wallets everyday and America’s food is banned in 31 other countries.

God bless Kennedy who wants to put our environment and children’s health first!!!!!!

People planet profits

Force of nature meats is a legit company

One love,

Namaste

JCC

Freedom

One will never gain their freedom by trying to control others.

Freedom is working on that person in the mirror🦋🌞🙌

JUDGEMENT

When you judge another you do not define them… you define yourself.

Nowadays when someone cuts me off I think to myself… I too have cut someone off before.

When someone forgets to use their turn signal I think… I too have forgotten to use my turn signal.

Sometimes we get so caught up in being right, judging or being offended that we forget we are all just human.

Peace and love to all

Thank god we have the ability to pivot and turn in the direction we want to go 🦋🙌🌞💭👍🐉🌲🐞😊

And definitely thank god for Rob Miller

COMPASSION

Compassion is my intention today.

I am in a season of my life where I am losing someone I love.

It happens to all of us.

Today I am sitting with my sadness, hugging my sadness and showing compassion to all.

I refuse to escape in drugs, alcohol or pills.

I allow myself to feel my feelings and know that it is ok.

One of my gurus says anti depressants are like injecting your hand with Novocain and putting it in a hot stove.

In life we are meant to feel are feelings is what I believe.

Not block them.

Not slap a smiley face over a sad face and say you are good.

I hope everyone has a blessed day and shows compassion to all.

I will never believe my problems are bigger than others.

I will never believe I am better than anyone else.

Different seasons in life and I know the world is in balance.

Peace and love to all

GAUGE

Just like our vehicles have a gas gauge… so do our internal bodies.

One of my guru’s says if your vehicles gas gauge says empty…one would not just simply slap a smiley face over it and pretend it was full.

In the same breathe one would not sit at the gas station with one’s head on the steering wheel and say “ well I guess that was it… what a fun ride!!!”

So many of us in life… most of experience the ups and the downs.

I have been trained to feel all my feelings and not hide in alcohol or pills or anything like that.

Things that “ refuel “ me personally are times with friends, nature trail walks, and silence.

If you are on empty I invite you to stay solution oriented.

If you are full… I invite you to share that joy with everyone you meet!!!!!!

All my love and compassion

Crofton